It's Not Okay To Not Be Okay

It's Not Okay To Not Be Okay

Nobody wants to appear weak, or be looked down on for not being a salty ol' pro who just muscles their way through the day. You have to be a machine, and not a human being with emotions and a gag reflex

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Modesty, Privacy, Dignity

Modesty, Privacy, Dignity

If the person at the time of disrobing has all their facilities, then the hospital gown may seem better suited for a fraternity initiation stunt then the first step into the most advanced medical care in the world.  For most patients, conscious or otherwise, the hospital gown is rarely a confidence booster.

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The Leap

The Leap

Do you get really frustrated at a coworker who should be way ahead in their career but struggle with the simplest of things? Is there someone you looked up to, but soon discovered that despite their years of experience just aren’t the kind of person you aspire to be? What you are experiencing is what I call “the Gap”, and what you need, is to Leap.

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I Don't Want To Be A Patient

I Don't Want To Be A Patient

We have no reason to look at them, except to look down at them, for the purpose of our job.  We conduct our exam, document our findings, and carry on.  But if it is true that we are in the preferred seat, then we have the incredible opportunity to exercise that authority and power to make a genuine difference.

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A Call For Mercy

A Call For Mercy

In healthcare, we may think that our position gives us some kind of moral authority over those who are struggling through life.  My privilege and education give me capacity to care for and be compassionate to my patient and community; not to pass judgment or condemnation.  The hell that people bring into their own life will not be transformed by adding gasoline to the fire of a life already turning to ash.

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The Blunt Side Always Stings

The Blunt Side Always Stings

After the tones, I don't feel human.  A kind of switch is flipped. I have to go out on a call and perform at a higher level then anything else in my life.  I have to see things that would bring me to tears any other time and pretend that it doesn't bother me.

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